Why You Suck at Blogging

You probably heard that if you about to start blogging you better start talking or rather writing about other people’s problem. Talk to them. Focus on their needs. Hmmm……. .But sometimes you just want to say: Fuck That! , right? Or maybe you don’t, but I do.

Sometimes a blogger can get really frustrated because he/she feels that not getting anywhere can suck a toe big time.

And the problem is this:

We WANT to get somewhere. So our actions (blogging, implementing SEO, blogging on other blogs) just means to an end.

Eckhart Tolle said something that got me thinking:

When you’re walking across a room to pick up a magazine, your focus and attention should be not on the magazine, but on the “walking”.

That means  you should blog not because you want to get something out of it, but because of the pure joy of blogging.

And that’s exactly where my problem with blogging lies. I do it to get to point B. I do it to get something out of it. So that, ladies and gentleman is plain stupid.

It’s like getting all your tooth pulled out to avoid cavities. I bet I could sell that idea , especially here in the US.

I like the idea of a vlog. When I do videos I am energized. I’m pumped. I’m excited. ( Oh, but Google LOVES written content. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!) Doesn’t matter, fuck it!

You gotta have fun! I mean that’s not what life is all about. Isn’t it about having fun and joy.

Another thing that I hate doing is going to other people’s blog and leaving comment on a topic that I read millions of times because everybody talks about the same shit (within the network marketing niche; or in fact within every single niche)

All blog commenting is all about

I leave a comment so other blog owners come to my blog and leave a comment on my site, yay!

I guess reading Gary Vaynerchuk’s Crush it! was a mistake after all.

Or

Am I just tired and disappointed that I’m not making 10k residual with Empower Network? LOL

Perhaps

When you start out a blog post don’t you kind of wanna write so other people to like it? That’s soooooo dumb, isn’t it? Yet I manage to do just that!

Today it might be a turning point.

I want to be liked because of who I am not because of who I can pretend to be. I feel like Jerry McGuire. LOL

Sooooooooooooooo, the point to this post is this :

LET IT OUT! 

Let out whatever is trying to come out of you!

I think that’s what I decided to do from today on.

later!